I have been doing a lot of reading lately. A lot. Much of it has been blog posts and articles on minimalism. I need that extra encouragement and motivation to get back to some simplicity, as many of us do from time to time.
When my exhusband and I first parted ways, I bought a home for myself and my sons. We didn’t have a lot to put into our home, and it seemed rather bare. I wanted to buy quality furniture that would last for a good long time, but I also wanted it to fit into our lifestyle. I also didn’t want to go into debt just to furnish the house. So, some pieces came from Ikea, or ikea-esk shops. Relatively inexpensive, but will do the job needed until I was ready to get the real deal. And it was fine to start with. We were just incredibly happy to be moving on with life in a positive note.
After about five months, I found the dining set that spoke to me. It had a rustic style, was made with refurbished wood, and the hardware was handmade. It spoke to me on so many levels. The style, the reuse of resources, the handmade personal touches. It felt very earthy and helped me feel connected to nature the way I like to be. I had saved the money needed which was great because that meant I wasn’t going into debt to buy this gorgeous piece of furniture.
This was the only piece of furniture I have purchased for the house. In all fairness, we don’t need anything else at this point badly enough to warrant the spending. But where we did go wrong was the little spending. The toys that add up but don’t get played with. The extra craft supplies that we bought without specific purpose but had grand ideas for. The extra stuff for Christmas that really wasn’t needed, wanted, or used, but was bought for the sake of volume for Christmas morning.
Clutter affects us in so many ways. It affects us mentally because there’s this mess looming over our heads that we know needs cleaning. The dust that accumulates because we can’t properly dust around the extra stuff. We just feel better when there is less around us. I know that, yet I still fell into the trap of having stuff.
So, over the next 50 days, I am embarking on a personal challenge to declutter my home, and prepare a healthy and welcoming environment. What I am hoping to achieve is mental comfort, a clean home that houses simply what we need or truly want. Those things that are no longer necessary need to go. Those things that hold negative feelings and negative memories must leave the premises. These things create mental clutter, which is just as harmful. Once this is done, my creative living can have the freedom to expand into the open spaces. And for me, this is very important.
I encourage everyone to consider how the things in your environment affect you…both good and bad. Minimalism is not for everyone, and it looks different for everyone too. What is the same is the stress relieving effect it should provide.