Life pulls us in so many directions. There are endless avenues we can take, and someone or something pulling or pushing us into so many of them. So, what is important? Which of these paths are the ones that mean the most to you? Which ones do you travel down?
One may lead you down a successful career path. Another may lead to a family centred life. Yet another may be a life of travel and exotic locations. Some may have children, others may leave you single and free of ties.
So, how do we know what is most important for us, each as individuals?
I think what we need to do is really listen…pay attention to what makes sense in our lives. What we want, what we need, and who else we want involved.
No easy task.
Some things are laid out for us before getting to the point of asking these questions. So we work with what we have. But happiness should never be the cost. There are always ways to find another path to that particular avenue that our souls so desperately want to be walking down.
What if you wanted to be an artist, but you were pushed into accounting? There you are, working at a desk, crunching numbers all day. Doing this without allowing yourself the freedom to do what you truly love is a slow and painful demise. Maybe your evenings are spent painting or sculpting. Maybe you take classes to develop your artistic skills. Just because your career describes you as an accountant, that does not define who you are.
Where there is a will, there is a way.
I do what I do, professionally. But personally, I am an artist, a writer, a photographer, an adventurer.
What’s not as important is how clean my floors are, how many dust bunnies live in the corners behind the sofa, how many weeds are growing in my garden, or how big the pile of laundry is.
We live this life but once. None of us are getting out alive. So do what makes you happy. Recognize, and make time for what is most important for you.